Gemini relationships can be challenging for their partners. Mercurial Geminis have deeply intelligent, unpredictable and versatile personalities. If a challenge inspires the romantic in you, then pairing with a Gemini will be your ultimate adventure. This undertaking will require patience, adaptability and a love of the unexpected. If lolling about in domestic bliss sounds like prison to you, Gemini is a great match.
Gemini: The Wave of Emotions
Geminis never leave you guessing. Their faces tell all; their eyes are either glowing from a heartfelt joy, or darkened by unhappy and depressing feelings of anger or despair. There is seldom any gray area, and this fact can make the relationship a daily roller coaster ride.
As Geminis mature, they become more able to manage their turbulent emotions. Male Geminis are often less emotional in relationships than their female counterparts. However, never assume that a quiet or calm Gemini is content. Their kinetic brains are always at work coming up with ideas and solutions to achieve their ultimate success.
Gemini in Love
Geminis needs constant stimulation from ideas and excitement. To stable signs like earth and the deep emotional water signs, Gemini is seen as being a bit flighty. It’s true that he can’t be bound to the earth for long, but that doesn’t mean he’s without substance.
This winged messenger is brilliant and has a mind that never stops turning. He’s all about communication. If you don’t know how to open up and share your thoughts and inner workings, you’ll soon find yourself looking at a cloud of dust as he runs off to find someone who can. When you’re romanced by a Gemini you know it because you’re wining and dining at some of the best places in town. It’s not just about good food though; the ambiance has to be just as impressive for this lover. Gemini romance can take place in just about any kind of a setting. Moonlit dinner cruises or a black-tie dinner followed by the theater are just some of Gemini’s favorite date nights.That isn’t to say he can’t derive enjoyment from a pizza and a movie at home. It’s just that it isn’t likely going to be something he wants to do more than once in a blue moon. A Gemini romance is one of variety. The more variety you can help create, the better for your love affair.
An Unsteady Affair
Geminis are an air sign. They are wanderers, and as such they are always moving toward new and interesting parts of life. They will require a partner that is not insecure and will either tolerate or join them in their wanderings, both physical and mental. If Geminis become bored and feel encumbered by a relationship, they will not have a moment’s hesitation about ending the relationship in order to move on to a happier place. However, if the relationship is a source of support and happiness, there is no more passionately loyal partner than the sign of the twins.
The way to a Gemini’s heart is through his mind. Nothing stimulates and excites a Gemini more than a love interest with a quick wit and agile mind. Exploring how you think is intriguing to this lover. A sexy mind is vital if you’re going to maintain a romantic love affair with the twins. As long as you’re also adventurous and enjoy social activities, there will be enough to keep your Gemini lover intrigued, at least for a while.
Your Gemini has a difficult time finding his equal match. Mystique is the seduction Gemini seeks, so don’t give away all of your secrets. Learning who you are and what makes you tick is intriguing and part of the game. This is one sign that loves making discoveries, including ones about himself. If you can help him discover new talents or facets about himself, you’ll be elevated to the rank of an amazing person.
It’s Nothing Personal
If you are deeply sensitive this relationship may be tough to live with. Geminis have a quick wit and a quicker tongue, and sometimes say things that are hurtful without meaning to do so. This is not intentional, as a Gemini would never calculate to hurt someone they care for. This tendency to speak without thinking can also cause them to make promises that they cannot make good on. Again, remember that Geminis are more apt to be unthinking than unfeeling.
As the partner in a Gemini relationship, there will be times when you may feel unimportant. This usually happens when a new situation or friend has entered the Gemini’s life and they are intently exploring the new possibilities, appearing to have forgotten your existence. The best way to weather this situation is to enjoy the novelty with your Gemini partner, listen with interest to their observations, and most of all don’t cling. This situation will pass as suddenly as it appeared. Bright Gemini will soon satisfy the curiosity and move on to wonder what you have been up to.
When Ready to Commit
Once a Gemini finds “the one” they are loyal and trustworthy spouses. It is often a long-time friend that a Gemini chooses to settle down with. The need to be mentally stimulated and have an accepting partner makes being friends first the basis for a successful Gemini relationship.
Enthusiastic companions who will treat life as a wonderful journey are the ideal mates for a Gemini. They should value humor, because Geminis will never miss an opportunity to laugh. Partners that are observant and a little intuitive will also be appreciated. They should know when to disengage from an argument, and also be aware that sometimes a blue mood can be turned around quickly with some affection and a thoughtful gesture.
Keep Love Alive
You’re going to need to stay on your toes if you’ve set your sights on a Gemini romance. Be forewarned: never try to lasso this wild creature with the intention of placing him in a corral. He’ll break free faster than you can turn to lock the gate!